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Personal Discipline – The Path to Personal Freedom and Success in Search



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Personal discipline. This is a daily challenge for me. We live in a world full of distractions, unhealthy choices, and pressure to do a myriad of things that are not in our true self-interest. Modern culture has created an increasingly noisy, busy, artificial, short-term focused, pleasure-seeking world. The human temptation to slip into the path of least resistance, to seek out safety and comfort, and to avoid risk and hard work is ever present.

I’m writing about this subject in relation to success in the search profession, as I believe that the ability to be incredibly self-disciplined is one of the most important requirements for success in this business. We all know that without doing “the work,” sustainable success as a recruiter will not happen. For the great majority of us, our work is done alone, either as solo practitioners, or in offices or cubicles, as part of a search firm. We each decide, in the “privacy of our own privacy,” what we will do with the hours we are blessed with each day.

Recruiting success, simply put, requires excellent productivity. Since our work as recruiters is primarily made up of our personal actions (phone calls, emails, meetings, letters, research, writing, listening, etc.), the productivity that I am talking about is “personal productivity,” as opposed to equipment, office, or other measures. Sustained personal productivity, or the amount of value-added work done per personal unit of time, over the long run, is one of the most significant indicators or predictors of success in this great business.

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Ask Barb: Email and Productivity



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Dear Barb:

I feel like email is really negatively impacting my production.  I get over 150 emails a day and that number keeps increasing.  Any hints on how to effectively handle daily emails?

Patrick M., San Jose, CA

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Time Keeps On Ticking: How To Prioritize It For Maximum Efficiency



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Somebody asked me recently how I get so much done.  I glibly answered that I have a lot of energy and delegate well.  But the question stuck with me — do I really get “so much done” and if so, how?

Anyone who knows me knows that I have the mind of an investigative reporter, so whenever I am posed a question that doesn’t have an obvious answer, I do some digging.  In this case, I decided to do a time study on my own activities for a week (I highly recommend that every recruiter do this occasionally). I recorded everything I did and how much time I spent on it — from the moment I started my work day to the time I “clocked out.” It provided me some insight into what I do well when it comes to using time and, even better, it pointed out some gaps that I can fill in to become even more effective with my time.

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If You Are Not On the Telephone, Don’t Kid Yourself — You Are NOT Working!



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Another one bites the dust. This guy has been doing this business for years…in fact, 27 years, to be specific, which puts him in the top 1% in the nation for tenure, and probably for career cash in as well. He was “retiring,” nothing wrong with that, but it was the way he was retiring which made me sad. He was going out the same way that washed-up prizefighters usually go out…beat up and defeated.

“Neil, I just cannot get the activity levels going which I used to do. For the last year, my sendout activity has been in the trash. I used to generate at least five first-time send outs per week. That dropped to three just six months ago, and one or two per week over the last three months. It’s time for me to go. I used to say to myself that it’s the economy, but I was kidding myself. Now I know the real reason I am not producing.”

I responded, “If you do not answer email then you are probably still kidding yourself.”

This friend of mine replied, “Bingo!”

The inventor of email was probably someone who hated salespeople in general, and our industry in specific. Got placed by someone he thought was a little too aggressive, or was a hiring authority who wanted to drag his feet, so he figured he would invent a way to get back at us.

The irony is that this person probably thought he was on to a good tool, which employers and candidates could use to hide effectively from our telephone calls.

However, if he was REALLY smart, he knew human nature, and how most salespeople would follow a path of least resistance…and choose email, their own poisons…rather than do the tough thing and make phone calls.

I know at least 10 previously very big-billing recruiters who fell into the email “addiction” and, like a drug abuser, it sent them into a living hell and out of this business. Don’t become one of email’s victims.

Email is the classic case of confusing activity with productivity. Remember to never use email in this business for anything related to selling. That means 95% of everything you do should not involve email. Additionally, only use email before work and after-hours. There is nothing on email that cannot wait until after telephone time. Instead of answering emails with emails, why not simply call that person and get it over with immediately?

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THE “PETRA PRINCIPLES”



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Our business may be easy to understand, but it is infinitely more challenging to execute in a consistent, effective and profitable manner. This challenge is based on the fact that we are continually dealing with people at every point in our processes. These people represent a “grey area” that many times can defy our best efforts to qualify and control. Frustration and despair may follow if our actions are not guided by a reality-based set of principles that address the unpredictable nature of the human condition.

Remember

“If you don’t stand for something, you will fall for anything.”

Original Author Unknown

 

Your principles define your “stand” and if properly formulated and followed, will help you meet the challenges presented by the prospects, clients, recruits, candidates and contacts you deal with on a daily basis.

Over the years, the following have been labeled the “Petra Principles.” They have served me well and have withstood the test of time. Perhaps they will serve as a reference point in developing your own principles for functioning successfully in this business.

Petra Principle Number One

People do things for their reasons and not ours.

This first and most important principle underscores all the others. It is based on the psychological truth that people always act in a manner THEY view to be in THEIR best interest. Consequently, to be successful in this business, we need to understand what “they view to be in their best interest.” This requires an empathetic approach, particularly when their “view” is contrary to the reality of the situation (see TFL – 09/05 – “Dealing Effectively With Objections”). Functioning according to this principle will eliminate much of the frustration inherent in dealing with people both professionally and personally.

Petra Principle Number Two

We have a right and a responsibility to select the people and business to which we apply our resources.

We have a right to select the people and business to which we apply our resources because primary among these resources is our time and effort. These are not infinite resources and once they are expended, they can never be recovered. Therefore, it is our right to select how these resources are utilized.

Remember

Most people do not suffer from a lack of resources. Rather they suffer from a lack of focus for the resources they do possess.

Correspondingly, we have a responsibility not to waste other people’s resources (see TFL – 11/97 – “Just Say No”). This requires that we take an objective approach (standards) to evaluating our circumstances. We cannot wish ourselves to success. We must focus on the reality of the situation and in a timely and clear manner “cut the cord” when the evidence supports this decisive action.

Petra Principle Number Three

We must make certain that our processes are designed to bring maximum value to all those involved.

Good intentions notwithstanding, our best efforts can be derailed if our processes are not designed to meet the objectives of everyone involved, including ourselves (see “Petra Principle Number One). If there is one thing we can and should control, it is our processes. Relinquishing this control to others means we are working blind while increasing the margin for error.

Do not confuse this principle with “my way or the highway.” Our processes need to be both interactive and adaptive to the specifics of the individual situation. However, once the processes are in place and agreed upon, everyone involved needs to accept their responsibility and accountability. To work in any other manner compromises the likelihood of a successful outcome and sets up a situation with no potential winners.

Petra Principle Number Four

We have a responsibility to – but not for.

We have a responsibility to provide accurate, clear and timely information to everyone involved at both ends of the decision making process. We have a responsibility to make certain they understand both the context and impact of the information on their decisions. However, we do not have a responsibility for their decisions. Just as we must accept responsibility for our decisions (see “Petra Principle Number Three”), they must accept responsibility for theirs.

Remember

The decisions they make will have a far greater impact on their lives than on ours.

In the heat of doing business, it is sometimes difficult not to project ourselves and our desires into the decision making processes of others. This is where professional detachment is required. Nevertheless, we need to be responsible for our actions and the subsequent impact of those actions on the outcomes of the process (see TFL – 02/02 – “A Fresh Perspective On Guarantees”). Maintaining this balance is the objective of this principle.

Although there are only four principles, they apply to every aspect of our business. When someone I’m dealing with needs to understand where I “stand,” I share these principles. In almost every case, they appreciate knowing that my actions are guided by a strong set of principles; principles that are consistent with their best interests.

As always, if you have questions or comments are most welcome.

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How To Respond To “But Your Competitors Are Cheaper”



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“I deal with recruiters who charge half of what you charge.Why should I deal with you at your fee of thirty percent?”

Hey, that’s a real good point, I thought to myself. I would probably ask the same question if I were in my prospective client’s shoes. He was a sharp and intelligent seasoned professional who has seen nearly every type of hiring scenario and has dealt with scores of recruiters over the last twenty years. What would be a logical phrase that I could give to this prospect that could turn him around and actually get him to willingly pay me a higher fee? Should I just tell him that I present better candidates and hope he buys it? Or should I just give in and go lower on the fee?

“That’s a good point, Joe. If I were you I would ask that exact same question.” I said it with empathy so that he felt that I really listened to his objection. “Let me share something with you about our industry that you may not have ever considered before.”

I’m listening,” he said. I think he was shocked that I didn’t just go ahead and capitulate to his forthright and serious response. I knew that I had his attention. He knew that I knew that I had his attention. I knew that he knew that I knew that I had his attention. It was time to go for it.

“Joe, what percentage do you work at with these other firms?” I asked.

“Twenty, sometimes fifteen percent.”

“Joe, do you think that you are the only client of these search firms?” I asked. Sure, loaded question.

“No, of course not,” he responded, probably rolling his eyes and thinking, ‘sure, loaded question.’

“Well the odds are high that these firms who you work with at fifteen and twenty percent have other clients who are willing to pay between twenty-five and thirty percent for top talent. Who do you think sees the best candidates first, you (pause for effect) or those other companies willing to pay a higher fee?”

“I see your point,” he said. It was a logical argument, and it made sense to him.

The next time you have a client who discusses the question of fees, use this ‘contrast principle’ argument to help them get a visual image of their competitors hiring better people but paying a premium fee for it. Continue in the conversation to ask more questions about their organization, asking things like how important it is to hire top talent and finding other emotionally-related issues which have the propensity to propel the client forward.

Remember, people make decisions based on emotions, not intellect. If you can strike the emotional chord of what would compel the client to go forward, you have just increased the probabilities of them paying a higher fee for it.

Within this little phrase you are (1) using the contrast principle to compare the fact that he does have competitors who are willing to pay full fees. (2) This is also based on the principle of ‘social proof’. If others have done it, so should he. Even further, you are (3) using the principle of scarcity to motivate him to move forward with a higher fee, showing him that there is a limited supply of top talent and that there is always hiring competition for the best of the best within his market. People move when a supply of something is scarce and when that supply has a higher perceived value. (For more information on the principles of influence, read Robert Cialdini’s book ‘Influence: Science and Practice’. For a free special report on the principles of influence email me at scott@scottlove.com )

Even if your client doesn’t go forward with the higher fee argument, at least he or she will respect you and the value of what you do if you show them that you respect yourself by explaining in a logical way how it benefits them to pay a higher fee. Remember that people do only what is in their own personal interest. Show the prospective client why it is in their best interests to pay you a higher fee and how that will benefit them on a personal and an emotional level.

If you put up a little bit of a verbal struggle with the fee conversation and don’t get them to go up in the fee, then you can at least negotiate for an increased response time or better payment terms if you can’t get anything else from that conversation. (“Okay, then we’ll work at that fee, but as soon as I present a candidate to you, I need for you to schedule the interview right away and give me immediate feedback after the interview.”) Try this logical progression of conversation the next time a client balks at your fee, and you’ll be amazed at how easier it is to get higher margins with that one little phrase.

Bonus tip: If you ever do have to make a concession on a fee, always find a justification for it. (“I just got a big retainer and I really don’t have the time to present this candidate to any other companies so I can justify working with you on this particular placement at that fee. But if I work on other searches for your company, then I want you and I to agree that I may want to talk about working on them at a higher fee.”)

Double Bonus tip: Remember, if they balk at your fees, it means that they’ve read Roger Dawson’s book Secrets of Power Negotiation and are using the ‘flinch technique’ on you. I’ve met with Roger several times at National Speakers Association meetings, and each time I see him I tell him that I built my entire recruiting desk on his fabulous book. If you haven’t read it, you need to get it today.

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Let the Good Times Roll



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I’ve been waiting four years to write this article’s title.

Since I like to integrate music in my training, I thought I’d try it in my writing. (For the past couple of years, I’ve been playing “We Are the Champions” for the industry survivors.)

Songs can grab attention, create a sensory reaction, and generate good feelings. There’s a marketing idea: Find out our clients’ favorite music genre or artist and forward an MP3 file.

The last time the job market was this strong was in the beginning of 2001, before 9/11 and before the stock market meltdown. Recessions are cleansing. Today’s companies are mean, lean, and hungry to hire. So are search and staffing firms.

If you’re reading this, you’re either a talented manager, an excellent consultant, or you’ve recently begun recruiting. Whichever, here’s where we’ve arrived:

We’re at the leading edge of a new jobs creation cycle that will last for years to come.

At the core, our business remains the same: To serve clients and identify talent.

Now we have new tools and new techniques that make us more effective and efficient.

Now is the time to harness what we’ve learned, take action, and savor the rewards.

Consultants across diverse industries and geographies report “business is back.” A common sentiment is this: “We’ve done a ’180′ from six months ago. We have a lot of new assignments and now candidates are hard to find. What to work on first?”

The same strategies apply in a candidate short market as in a candidate rich market:

Stay focused and disciplined.
Manage your time wisely.
Identify, evaluate and bond with top talent.
A-B-R-B (Always Be Relationship Building).
Follow-up, follow-up, follow-up.

The good news is that we can be ever more selective in the assignments we work. Higher supply of open positions puts us in a better position to negotiate higher fees and be more discerning with terms.

Many ask how can we “adjust” our clients’ thinking to this new world order (i.e., scarce talent), while upgrading contract terms. These are timely topics I review in my training this year.

Over the past few years, I’ve had the good fortune to speak one-on-one with hundreds of consultants. I’ve come to find that one overriding factor separates big billers from average ones.

It is this:

$300K+ billers know which assignments to work and which ones to let go.

Instinctively, this makes sense. If we spend our time only on assignments we can fill, then we’ll focus where the payoff is. This is more complex than meets the eye. Seasoned consultants seem to know intuitively which assignments and candidates to zero in on and which ones not to.

I’ve put together a guide to help in determining search assignment workability.

You may have seen something like this before. The same thinking can be applied for contingency and retained searches alike. I hope you find it to be a simple yet powerful tool.

Risk-Reward, Search Assignment Rating
(1 to 10 scale)

(1)Client status: Current (10), Referred (8), New (5)
(2)Responsiveness: ____
(3)Flexibility:
(4)Urgency:
(5)Ease-to-fill:
(6)Quick-to-fill:
(7)Exclusivity:
(8)Relative Fee:
(9)____________
(10)_____________

Total score:

70 to 80: Excellent assignment: Offer compelling value to capture business.

60 to 69: Good assignment: Standard fee range.

50 to 59: Fair assignment:? High end fee range.

Below 50: Unacceptable, pass on assignment.

By no means is this complete, e.g., how would you rate a ‘Past’ client for (1)?

A quick review of the categories above follows. It’s clear that a new assignment from a current, known client (1) should receive higher priority. Likewise, if a client is very responsive (2) and flexible (3) in the search parameters, then an assignment should be higher priority. Urgency (4) means that a client has a high need to fill. Ease-to-fill (5) comes from your market knowledge, while quick-to-fill correlates with supply and demand of candidates (is one available/qualified or do you have to recruit one?)

Exclusivity (7) is a very important factor: What is your relative competition (i.e., internal candidates or other recruiting firms?) If you’re retained, give a ’10.’ If there are more than three firms working an assignment, that’s a ’1′ in my book. Relative Fee (8) includes the pay-off component the dollar fee (not percentage) compared to other current assignments. If you add your own variables for (9) and/or (10), don’t forget to adjust the scale.

As you see, the total score corresponds to the fee range you may accept. This could be absolute dollars ($25K) or fee percentage (25%).

Of course, there are other negotiables (e.g., guarantee period, which must be considered).

Determine your bottom line and use this as your standard fee range. For example, my firm’s bottom line is working $100K exclusive assignments at 25%. If a retainer’s involved, we may go lower depending on the client relationship.

Always ask yourself this question first: Do you want the search assignment? If so, why?

The light at the end of the tunnel is shining bright. If the good times aren’t rolling for you yet, they soon will be.

One sure-fire way is to be more discerning in the assignments you work. (Another is gaining exclusivity with top candidates. Another still is ongoing training!)

If you’d like a page from my training materials entitled “Negotiating the Fee” which includes my “Risk-Reward, Search Assignment Rating” email me at mramer@ramergroup.com and I’ll send it to you.

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Clarify Expectations And Follow Up With Those Tough Questions



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To get people to do what we want them to do, we need to give a clear understanding about how we work and ensure that the client and candidate are willing to comply. Then we ask questions throughout the process to make sure that everything is on track. Such questions include “Has anything changed since we spoke last week?” “Have any other recruiters called you with any opportunities since we last talked?” “Are you still on board to turn your notice in tomorrow?” To make matters worse, the longer you have been in the business, the sloppier you become because you just sort of assume that everyone can read your mind and will follow in your glowing and glorious wake of experience.

About a year and a half ago, I was marketing a candidate who wanted to make a move to southern California. The relationship was strong and I had known him for several years. I told him that I felt I could help him and he was an eager and enthusiastic candidate. He returned my calls right after I left messages. He was sharp and happy and had the perfect career background. His spouse was an enthusiastic supporter of the move. His employer loved him and didn’t have any offices there. The motive to move was strong and pure. The candidate was ready to go. All I needed to do was conduct a ‘slam dunk’ round of calls to my relationship base and collect the fee. “I’ll take care of ya, John,” was pretty much my prep with him.

“Scott, for some reason this candidate’s background sounds familiar to me,” the prospective client said when I presented this candidate’s background to him. I only had three conversations with prospective employers and this fourth one seemed the most promising and the most eager to talk with my candidate. “Is he from Charlotte?” he asked.

“Um, yes. Why?”

“Wait, I think I have his resume right here in front of me. Here it is. Is his name John Smith?”

Yes, that was the candidate all right. When I asked the prospective client how he got the candidate’s resume he said that it was emailed to him the day before from another recruiter.

Why that little. . . wait. Wait. Wait. Did I tell him to work with me and only me? Um, no. I sort of assumed that he would because the relationship was so good. When I talked with the candidate and explained the situation to him he said that he got a call from another recruiter shortly after the two of us talked and decided to send his resume to him. “Should I not have done that, Scott?” was all he asked me.

My mistake. He had no idea about exclusively working with me because I never told him about it. I learned the lesson once again of why a recruiter should make sure that everyone is on board with their protocols and is willing to comply. In this circumstance, I should have told John something like this:

“I’m interesting in partnering with you to help you find an opportunity that you might not be able to find on your own.

What’s even better for you, once I come across something, is my ability to sell you as a top performer. Because I’m an expert in your niche and make a living presenting top performers, they’ll take me seriously when I have a candidate that they need to hear about. If you call them they probably won’t take you as seriously and will put you in the human resources corral with all the other cattle. With me you get head-of-line privileges because, typically, I bypass HR and go right to the top or to those who are really running things.

That way, I can tell them something like, ‘Hey, John’s a good guy,’ and they’ll believe me more than you saying ‘I’m a good guy.’ I can give you the power of third party credibility.

What I need from you to be able to do this is a commitment that you and I are going to work together and exclusively. I’ll uncover as many opportunities as I can and will make sure that they’ll all hear about you, and if you hear about any opportunities then call me first so I can see if I can open the door a lot easier for you.”

If only I had spent the thirty seconds saying that to John. He would have agreed, would have turned me on to the other opportunity, and I would have had another fat check to deposit. But at least the experience gave me a lesson I’ll never forget.

Remember, client control and candidate control does not exist and are deceptive myths of our industry. Whenever you need compliance from someone, follow these three steps to increase the likelihood their commitment:

1. First tell them exactly what you need. “We need to work together and I need you to work exclusively with me.”

2. Second, tell them why this will benefit them. If it’s a client and you are trying to get an exclusive from them, tell them why it will benefit them to give you this. “Because of the type of performer that you are looking for in the market, I will have to spend a lot of time and dedicate my resources that normally I would give to more of my established clients. (contrast principle). I’m okay with this, but I need to ask from you a greater commitment in terms of an exclusive or a retainer (reciprocity principle).” The odds of compliance increase significantly when you tell people why it will benefit them. Remember that it’s not about you. It’s about them. Make it that way in your communication with them. And if you have not yet bought Robert Cialdini’s book on influence, you need to pick it up. (Influence: Science and Practice).

3. Ask those tough questions. When you follow up, ask questions to test that they are still on board. If I had communicated the exclusive nature of my marketing relationship with the candidate, I would have followed up every once in a while, asking things like, “Are you still on board with everything?” “Have you had any contact with anyone else regarding career issues since we last talked?” “Have you received any other calls from other search firms since we talked?”

I think the reasons why we fail to spend the time to explain what we need from people, such as an exclusive relationship in this example, is fear. We are afraid of getting a ‘no’ from them, even though we know that we are doing something in their best interests and that they’ll probably be okay with it. We are afraid that we are coming across too salesy or too pushy.

Get over it by making yourself do it. Recognize your feelings of anxiety when you come across these situations and validate them. I feel anxious asking this candidate for an exclusive. Then tell yourself why you need to push through it. But I need to because if I do not then I open myself up to variables that could take him out of the placement process. If you feel you are too pushy and think you are too salesy, remind yourself that it really does work in their best interests if they follow your lead. If John makes calls on his own they won’t take him seriously. If he works with me he’ll be on a plane next week flying to an interview.

Remember that your job as a recruiter is one of the most powerful in corporate America. You build companies. You build futures. Sometimes it’s as simple as taking someone from Rut A and putting them in Rut B. But Rut B is always a better rut. Believe in the power of what you do and take charge of your desk when it comes to communicating effectively with people. And you’ll be amazed at how much of a difference this minor change will make in your billings.

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Get Your Year In Gear – Your 2005 Action Plan



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Now that the holidays are over, it’s time to think about how you’re going to make 2005 your strongest year yet in terms of production and professional fulfillment. The Action Plan below is a part of a process that I use with recruiting firm owners in my coaching programs to assist them in gaining clarity and sense of excitement regarding their goals. Here are a few things to be aware of:

  • Your 12 month plan is a snapshot of the future- your vision of what your business will achieve in the next year.

  • The purpose of this exercise is to “begin with the end in mind” and create a target that will provide a sense of direction and purpose to your daily efforts. It is a basis for decision making, planning and business development activities
  • Your business is a vehicle for getting more out of life. It should serve you, rather than the other way around. This is your chance to pre-meditate the future.
  • Be sure to base your one year goals on your long term company vision
  • The “why” or benefit of the goal is where the true motivation lies to stretch yourself beyond your comfort zone. The “why” usually has to do with benefits or feelings; freedom, affluence, confidence, contribution, travel etc. This is the “juice” that makes the effort of reaching the goal worthwhile so make it compelling.

12 Month Action Plan:

Name: Today’s Date: Completion Date:

12 MONTH GOALS:

Goal I: Our revenue will exceed…

Why it’s important:

Action steps needed in order to hit this goal:

A.

B.

C.

Goal II:

Why it’s important:

Action steps needed in order to hit this goal:

A.

B.

C.

Goal III:

Why it’s important:

Action steps needed in order to hit this goal:

A.

B.

C.

Goal IV:

Why it’s important:

Action steps needed in order to hit this goal:

A.

B.

C.

Goal V:

Why it’s important:

Action steps needed in order to hit this goal:

A.

B.

C.

STRONG START 90 DAY GOALS:

Goal I: Our revenue will exceed…

Why it’s important:

Action steps needed in order to hit this goal:

A.

B.

C.

Goal II:

Why it’s important:

Action steps needed in order to hit this goal:

A.

B.

C.

Goal III:

Why it’s important:

Action steps needed in order to hit this goal:

A.

B.

C.

Goal IV:

Why it’s important:

Action steps needed in order to hit this goal:

A.

B.

C.

Goal V:

Why it’s important:

Action steps needed in order to hit this goal:

A.

B.

C.

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“Stockholm Syndrome” And The Recruiter



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Stockholm Syndrome describes the behavior of kidnap victims who, over time, becomes sympathetic to their captors. The name derives from a 1973 hostage incident in Stockholm, Sweden. At the end of six days of captivity in a bank, several kidnap victims actually resisted rescue attempts, and afterwards refused to testify against their captors.

What causes Stockholm Syndrome? Captives begin to identify with their captors initially as a defensive mechanism, out of fear of violence. Small acts of kindness by the captor are magnified, since finding perspective in a hostage situation is by definition impossible. Rescue attempts are also seen as a threat, since it’s likely the captive would be injured during such attempts.” [Ask Yahoo, http://ask.yahoo.com/ask/20030324.html; more information, http://www.mental-health-matters.com/articles/article.php?artID=469 ]

The inspiration for this article came from a response Danny Cahill wrote to a closing question on www.AccordingToDanny.com entitled “The Eulogy Close.” It’s a particularly challenging close when a candidate wants to accept a client’s offer, but is reluctant or refusing due to a non-compete contract he/she has signed. I won’t go into the Cahill letter here in detail, but I encourage you to visit his site and “look it up,” as my father would say. I associated the Stockholm Syndrome with The Eulogy Close because it’s aic situation that occurs incrementally more often as the issue behind the close has more fear and emotion associated with it. However it can also be a very simple occurrence that will trigger the Stockholm Syndrome within a recruiter and begin to solidify an instinct that will lead to a new recruiter’s failure in our business. This is a crucial issue that needs to be addressed, so let’s break it down tactically……

What is it, who can suffer it and why? The Stockholm Syndrome as it relates to our business happens when a recruiter identifies with the objection from a candidate or client as a result of an exaggerated altruistic feeling toward that person and/or an identification with the objection or situation. It’sically verbalized or imagined as, “I wouldn’t do THAT if I were him. I can understand his objection.” The recruiter literally talks himself out of overcoming an objection or challenge in the process. With new recruiters, the misleading altruism can be a result of a feeling that they want to “help the world” through their noble work and wanting everyone to like them — or a fear of any form of confrontation. If it’s not an altruistic cause, it’s wanting to avoid the fear of failure in working through an objection or looking like a “snake-oil salesman.” With experienced recruiters it can be as a result of not wanting to summon the emotional energy to circumvent the objection (i.e., just being tired or perhaps shall I say it? — lazy). Either way, it’s an illusion. There is no better service a truly consultative recruiter can offer his contacts than removing fear and misunderstanding from a process in order to help them succeed for the long term. Remember, we wear the multiple hats of “change agents,” “teachers,” “counsels” and “anti-fear agents,” among others.

As in the actual Stockholm case noted above, some recruiters will identify so closely with the objection that they become agitated by those trainers or managers who would attempt “rescue action” by helping them understand how to take the proper course of action. The fear or insecurity generated by the objection flips a switch within the recruiter that locks out logic and objectivity and disables the learning function. The emotional defense airbags fly out and wreck a deal, prospective relationship, source for contacts and most importantly the career of a promising recruiter.

When can it happen? On a regular basis with many recruiters almost always with those in the first few years of running a desk, but very often with those in the business for many years. It can happen at very simple times getting basic information, and it can kick in as a first reaction to a particularly difficult or complex objection.

How is Stockholm Syndrome manifested in a recruiter? It could be a simple situation for a new recruiter trying to determine a candidate’s salary we’ve all had that time when an uneducated prospect feels that salary is “private.” The recruiter buys in to the objection without attempting to educate the prospect. It can happen and most frequently does when a recruiter is attempting to source a contact for names or leads. Upon the objection (e.g., “I don’t want to give names to you because you’ll just steal people from my organization.” “It’s not appropriate for me to give you a name without clearing it with the person first.” Or “I don’t know anyone who’s looking.”), the recruiter “owns” it himself of course, he understands why the objection is made, thinking, “I wouldn’t give names either, I know what I’ll do with them.” There are logical, mutually beneficial reasons to get past that objection. (Ask me some time at a conference or refer to Cahill’s web site that’s for another article.) It could happen with the “Eulogy Close,” when a recruiter shares the personal fear of being sued by an employer for breaking a non-compete contract. “I wouldn’t want to have to go through that either.” The emotion of the moment could prevent the recruiter from working through the complex close as Cahill describes thus destroying a deal due to perceived but not actual negatives. There are many other examples of how the Stockholm Syndrome can “infest” a recruiter and that’s literally what it is, an infestation. A great morning meeting at your office would be to role play with your colleagues in identifying red flags, situational possibilities and cures.

Speaking of cures, how can a recruiter look for his or her own manifestations of the Stockholm Syndrome? Be alert and very aware of your perceptions and emotions. Look for the fear in your reaction to objections and challenges. Be mindful of agreeing with a contact’s objections too quickly. Either while you’re in conversation with him, or even before you pick up the phone. There’s nothing wrong with being in mid-conversation and asking to put the contact on hold while you briefly recover from the fear or gather your thoughts. In my early days in the business, I used to put the contact on hold to counsel quickly with my manager or another recruiter I respected. You can even tell the contact you’ve just been paged, can you get back to him in five minutes? Better to put the situation on brief hold rather than react without the proper tactics. Remember that courage is not the absence of fear, but the mastery of it. You can actually practice techniques that will help you master fear. Identification and action are the first steps. Seek education and role-playing from your peers and managers. Be proactive about learning. Passivity kills in this business. The Stockholm Syndrome issue is probably one of the three largest impediments to success we have. Once you’ve learned how to identify symptoms of the syndrome and techniques to respond to them, PRACTICE! Look forward to opportunities to put the techniques to work for you, and your candidate or client.

All of us come into this business with a certain set of pre-conceived perceptions. Many contribute to our long-term success. But many conversely can lead to mediocrity or failure. Those perceptions must be changed in order to provide true value to people’s lives and self-respect for what we do as professionals. This is accomplished through education. Don’t ever stop learning. If you’re reading this, you must believe in that philosophy as I do. You’ve just taken another step forward through awareness. Next comes action. The Stockholm Syndrome in our business is just another speed bump on the path to success. It’s up to you to keep moving forward to your goals. Enjoy the trip!